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« on: May 09, 2008, 09:39:01 PM »
So...i quit my job today because my boss threatened to fire me because "for the past six months i have make believed that I work....and i have never accomplished anything in my life". So, after reaching the breaking point I quit...and give me credit, i've put up with this every day for 2 and a half years....

So, I tell my mom...she's cool with it, she understands, yet at the same time doesnt want me to move out...which i understand...

But her boyfriend on the other hand....i ended up getting my car taken back, and my HOUSE KEY taken away. so After i leave to look for new jobs tomorrow I have no house. Nowhere to stay....not even income...

and im sure that 1,000 wont go far at all... Neutral   

This is my dilemma, as im sure most dont care, but i would like some helpful hints.....

Any hints/tips to making it?
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« Reply #1 on: May 09, 2008, 09:53:57 PM »
stay with friends til u get on ur feet or like i've been telling u...ur grparents r there for u...u know that...

let ur old boss find someone that'll work half as hard as u for the S#!t he paid u and the crap u had to take for it...u can and will do much better with that job behind u..
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« Reply #2 on: May 09, 2008, 10:00:53 PM »
Quote from: tdawnaz on May 09, 2008, 09:53:57 PM
stay with friends til u get on ur feet or like i've been telling u...ur grparents r there for u...u know that...

let ur old boss find someone that'll work half as hard as u for the S#!t he paid u and the crap u had to take for it...u can and will do much better with that job behind u..
Exactly, It will suck, but you need to get away!  You have to . You are a good person and have a good head on your shoulders as well, you will find your own way. Just keep the faith, this is a test remember?  You will pass it !!! Where ever you have to go, just do it, it's summer , so you will be fine, don't eat bad food just to satisfy your hunger, eat apples, there cheap, no junk food !!!   Keep your body healthy , and your mind will follow.  

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« Reply #3 on: May 09, 2008, 10:12:00 PM »
There is nothing "off topic" about one of our longtime members needing advice of this magnitude. Good luck to you. I have been in your shoes before with some more piled on top. All I can say is never let anyone else take your HAPPINESS from you. You need nothing to be happy, dont give anyone that power.. EVER. You will do fine. Get you a new job ASAP and work hard for what you want. Best of luck to you.  Very Happy
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« Reply #4 on: May 09, 2008, 10:23:47 PM »
yeh well....i need a job, but to look for a job means losing my house.... kinda F'ed up huh....  uglystupid2

And Im staying somewhere that i can stay for at least a week and a half..but after that im screwed unless i get hired..then i'll keep staying where i am...and help pay bills and stuff till i can save some back


btw, thnx all. I know this has nothing to do with technology...but damn, i dont know how to fix this myself. so Thanks for the help...
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« Reply #5 on: May 09, 2008, 10:26:53 PM »
Quote from: starship_troopers on May 09, 2008, 10:23:47 PM
yeh well....i need a job, but to look for a job means losing my house.... kinda F'ed up huh....  uglystupid2

And Im staying somewhere that i can stay for at least a week and a half..but after that im screwed unless i get hired..then i'll keep staying where i am...and help pay bills and stuff till i can save some back


btw, thnx all. I know this has nothing to do with technology...but damn, i dont know how to fix this myself. so Thanks for the help...
Walk into a place that needs help, ask politely for the manager and introduce yourself with confidence and with a firm handshake. Look him in the eye and tell him you WANT to work, you will work your ass off for him/her and that he will not be disappointed. Once you get hired work your ass off with a great attitude daily and you WILL move up, you WILL be rewarded.
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« Reply #6 on: May 09, 2008, 10:28:56 PM »
thnx shug.
I'm actually putting in applications anywhere that they will give me one....trust me, im going everywhere....got to start somewhere, right?
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« Reply #7 on: May 09, 2008, 10:30:19 PM »
What ever  you do do not get to proud to take any job that will benefit you. Meanning I have known some who thought a job was beneath them. Success means being willing to do what ever it takes to get ahead.  wink  I have even shoveled chicken S#!t for a buck before.

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« Reply #8 on: May 09, 2008, 10:31:53 PM »
Quote from: starship_troopers on May 09, 2008, 10:28:56 PM
thnx shug.
I'm actually putting in applications anywhere that they will give me one....trust me, im going everywhere....got to start somewhere, right?
You are welcome and you are right, we all start somewhere. And the VAST majority of us start below the bottom rung and hate it. The ones who keep site of what they want and work hard with a good attitude are the ones that go from janitor to CEO, the ones who dont are who serves your burger at 10 at night at age 45. You will do fine.... you will.  Very Happy

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What ever  you do do not get to proud to take any job that will benefit you. Meanning I have known some who thought a job was beneath them. Success means being willing to do what ever it takes to get ahead.  wink  I have even shoveled chicken S#!t for a buck before.

Best wishes bro.

DAMN true. I think you know most of what we are telling you SST. You just need to know must of us have been there before. Dont feel alone.
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« Reply #9 on: May 09, 2008, 10:34:41 PM »
Yeah tommie, i'll work at mcdonalds and long john silvers .....to start off....walmart as the cart bitch.....(no offense meant to anyone)...

Whereever they take applications is where im applying..but i would also like to look into benefits such as medical and stuff also...  wink    i have thought into this S#!t.
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« Reply #10 on: May 09, 2008, 10:36:09 PM »
Quote from: starship_troopers on May 09, 2008, 10:34:41 PM
Yeah tommie, i'll work at mcdonalds and long john silvers .....to start off....walmart as the cart bitch.....(no offense meant to anyone)...

Whereever they take applications is where im applying..but i would also like to look into benefits such as medical and stuff also...  wink    i have thought into this S#!t.
2funny 2funny Ive never head anyone call it a cart bitch....

Don't count on medical you don't want that right now. all that will do is take money from you each week.

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« Reply #11 on: May 09, 2008, 10:37:20 PM »
Quote from: dlewis23 on May 09, 2008, 10:36:09 PM
2funny 2funny Ive never head anyone call it a cart bitch....

Don't count on medical you don't want that right now. all that will do is take money from you each week.


i just mean like benifets, just an example was medical, i just mean anything. but true....just takes more taxes and stuff from my wages....

hmmm.....
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« Reply #12 on: May 09, 2008, 10:38:13 PM »
well...at least you guys can say im not just randomly going out and trying to deliberately do this...i have a reason....and im trying to be sensible about it....
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« Reply #13 on: May 09, 2008, 10:41:42 PM »
benefits r good...cuz u'll lose alot more than a little off ur check if u get sick or need stitches or god forbid have an accident...benefits r good if u can get them...if u can't take what u can and keep looking for the one that will give them to ya
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« Reply #14 on: May 09, 2008, 10:42:00 PM »
 I have been there, I won't bore you, but I have, I lost everything, and i mean I had what I wore, and 5 bucks ! Someone gave me 5 bucks. I didn't ask either.  I walked to a job site got another job, and off i went !

 You can too, if I can, thats for sure.

 EDIT, granted this was 16 + years ago, and I never forget where i was.
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« Reply #15 on: May 09, 2008, 10:45:05 PM »
lol i got 10 bucks...so maybe i'll double my luck from yours?    :haha:
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« Reply #16 on: May 09, 2008, 10:45:39 PM »
Quote from: starship_troopers on May 09, 2008, 10:34:41 PM
Yeah tommie, i'll work at mcdonalds and long john silvers .....to start off....walmart as the cart bitch.....(no offense meant to anyone)...

Whereever they take applications is where im applying..but i would also like to look into benefits such as medical and stuff also...  wink    i have thought into this S#!t.
True story, if I were to ever hit the lotto, my dream job is being a "cart bitch". :haha: :haha: :haha: Except I am gonna be a "cart wrangler" I will work for free as long as I can wear a cowboy hat and chaps and a lasso. That would be so bomb ass. Listen to the ipod and wrangle carts. Ill wistle and say "YAH..YAH"... Yup Im that F#@&ed up.
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« Reply #17 on: May 09, 2008, 10:46:17 PM »
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lol i got 10 bucks...so maybe i'll double my luck from yours?    :haha:


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« Reply #18 on: May 09, 2008, 10:47:19 PM »
i cant beleive you guys have never heard of it being called the cart bitch   2funny    uglystupid2



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yeah, trust me. i dont care if i have to dress up as a lobster and wave cars down...im getting a job to support my happy ass.....

LMAO i just noticed, i've hijacked this section of the forum :p    10 tmn bucks to me...  Wink
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« Reply #19 on: May 09, 2008, 10:49:53 PM »
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i cant beleive you guys have never heard of it being called the cart bitch   2funny    uglystupid2


yeah, trust me. i dont care if i have to dress up as a lobster and wave cars down...im getting a job to support my happy ass.....

LMAO i just noticed, i've hijacked this section of the forum :p    10 tmn bucks to me...  Wink
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« Reply #20 on: May 09, 2008, 10:51:37 PM »
Just a hint, guys get out of jail everyday with less than you have right now.  wink

You'll do fine. And if you get hungry, tell a small restraunt owner that you literally will wash dishes for food. It might even land you a job and more.

Also like mudman said, construction is a great place to look for now. The decent help is hard to find.
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« Reply #21 on: May 09, 2008, 10:53:29 PM »
Quote from: starship_troopers on May 09, 2008, 10:47:19 PM
i cant beleive you guys have never heard of it being called the cart bitch   2funny    uglystupid2


yeah, trust me. i dont care if i have to dress up as a lobster and wave cars down...im getting a job to support my happy ass.....

LMAO i just noticed, i've hijacked this section of the forum :p    10 tmn bucks to me...  Wink
I never did that , but I did work at a motel 6 changin light bulbs and putting the lamps back n the wall after a party  2funny



 That ( the vid) could be anyone that did what they had to do to get where they needed top be  !!   Love it  laugh
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« Reply #22 on: May 09, 2008, 10:55:31 PM »
Honestly man, you could go to a nursing home and work as a CNA. The work is hard as hell but they will certify you in about 2 weeks for free, they are desperate so you could start tomorrow and if your good you can get around 12 bucks an hour. Its a start but not a long term solution. I GUARANTEE you if you hit 3 nursing homes tomorrow you WILL leave with a job. Its not choice but it pays the bills.
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« Reply #23 on: May 09, 2008, 11:04:43 PM »
Yeah, nursing home are always hiring, and as you climbthere is really money to be made, And a great place to get experience.  Very Happy 
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« Reply #24 on: May 10, 2008, 08:29:24 AM »
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That commercial is so F#@&en dumb. I hate it. They make it seem like a company can hold your credit score against you when you get a job, but they can't.
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« Reply #25 on: May 10, 2008, 08:35:55 AM »
I have more than 2 cents on this.Normally I would take the parents side but this is bad parenting.So I hope I'm right in taking your side.
Quote from: starship_troopers on May 09, 2008, 09:39:01 PM
But her boyfriend on the other hand....i ended up getting my car taken back, and my HOUSE KEY taken away. so After i leave to look for new jobs tomorrow I have no house. Nowhere to stay....not even income...
This is crazy on a whole lot of levels.Take the car & a place to live; now that's really going to help you get an equal or better job.
Now if after a couple of months of you hadn't even looked for a new job & all you did was party then I might be for something like that.Not like this immediately.
Is there a reason he thinks you aren't going to look for & get another job?
Most of the time it would be the other way around.You have a job & have for a while & you are told you need to find your own place.
I think the boyfriend was just looking for an excuse to kick you out.Correct me if I'm wrong.

Quote from: starship_troopers on May 09, 2008, 09:39:01 PM
So, I tell my mom...she's cool with it, she understands, yet at the same time doesn't want me to move out...which i understand...
Now for your mom the one that should have made this decision without the boyfriend.She should kick him out or move herself depending who owns or leases the property.There could be some legal mess if they both do.If that is the case then probably all she has to do is stand up to him .I don't think there is any law that would keep her from allowing a guest to stay.I'm sure there are a lot of factors that I don't know about but from what I've read so far.Your mom needs to get her own place & let you live there at least till you get a job & find your own place if that's what needs to be done.
One more question : Where is your biological father?If that's too personal just say he's out of the picture.
& like tdawnaz said Do you have grandparents the will help?
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